I think for the majority of mums to be we focus on all the intricacies of getting pregnant and once we are our focus turns to how we feel during pregnancy, what changes we are experiencing etc. Most of us do not think about the end result - that we will have a beautiful little human being completely dependant on us in 9 months time. And I believe this is where after the birth and things do not go completely to plan, mums can feel lost, out of their depth & a little helpless a